i dont want an apology from you or your excuses for him. you should have to apologize for him, and you should be making excuses. its not your job. if he wants to apologize then fine, but i dont even want that from him if thats how he feels about me or whatever. he can have his opinions as i do. he can hate me and i dont really care. i...respect...the fact that he has opinions, wrong or right, he can have them. he doesnt need to apologize, and he doesnt have ANY excuses for what he said about me and my relationship. dont defend him from me. cause its really not gonna do anything....